{"id":4389,"date":"2018-12-09T01:49:46","date_gmt":"2018-12-09T01:49:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/denisaneacsu.wordpress.com\/?p=4389"},"modified":"2020-04-20T21:12:29","modified_gmt":"2020-04-20T21:12:29","slug":"awkward-science-a-tacea-cu-buna-stiinta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/index.php\/2018\/12\/09\/awkward-science-a-tacea-cu-buna-stiinta\/","title":{"rendered":"Awkward Science (a t\u0103cea cu bun\u0103 \u0219tiin\u021b\u0103)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Oare de ce ne temem de &#8222;awkward silence&#8221; \u0219i nu de &#8222;disturbing noise&#8221;? Ce anume s-a normalizat, pentru a g\u0103si ceva straniu \u00een lini\u0219te, \u00een timp ce muzica tare, claxonatul \u0219i autobuzele nu ne produc dec\u00e2t o iritare, dar nicidecum nu \u00eel consider\u0103m inadecvat?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Se presupune c\u0103 noi oamenii avem multe \u00een comun. Aceste asem\u0103n\u0103ri sunt mai mult produse ale culturii \u0219i socializ\u0103rii \u0219i mai pu\u021bin meritul nostru de a uni distan\u021bele dintre noi.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Adesea, nu suntem exper\u021bi \u00een a intui care e cel mai interesant subiect de conversa\u021bie la o mas\u0103 de 10 persoane. Tocmai de aceea, momentele de t\u0103cere sunt cea mai frumoas\u0103 declara\u021bie de dragoste social\u0103. Pentru mine sunt un compliment, o asigurare a faptului c\u0103 oamenii \u00eemi respect\u0103 suficient inteligen\u021ba \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu umple plictisul cu discu\u021bii second-hand.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Nu o s\u0103 m\u0103 dau superioar\u0103 spun\u00e2nd c\u0103 mie \u00eemi e u\u0219or s\u0103 trec peste\u00a0t\u0103cerea\u00a0incomod\u0103.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ba\u00a0dimpotriv\u0103,\u00a0\u00een\u00a0momentele\u00a0acelea\u00a0simt\u00a0c\u0103\u00a0e\u00a0datoria\u00a0mea\u00a0moral\u0103\u00a0s\u0103\u00a0vin\u00a0cu o\u00a0glum\u0103, cu o\u00a0fraz\u0103\u00a0sclipitoare.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ei bine, c\u00e2nd am aflat c\u0103 \u0219i tendin\u021ba de a m\u0103 crede buricul suferin\u021bei unor oameni este tot o form\u0103 de narcisism (numit &#8222;dark narcissism&#8221; de Elisabeth Gilbert) m-am potolit. Nu prea le pas\u0103 oamenilor de c\u00e2t\u0103 cantitate de t\u0103cere aduc eu cu mine la mas\u0103, momentele acestea pur \u0219i simplu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. Sunt \u0219i eu responsabil\u0103 de t\u0103cere, dar aceasta din urm\u0103 nu e un infractor care trebuie prins \u0219i exterminat cu orice pre\u021b.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u0218i istoria complicat\u0103 este c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd eram copii ni se spunea &#8222;shhhht, face\u021bi lini\u0219te&#8221;(deci am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u0103 lini\u0219tea e ceva ce &#8222;s<em>e face&#8221;<\/em>, cu sudoarea frun\u021bii), iar ca adul\u021bi ni se transmite c\u0103 lini\u0219tea e un semn de inabilitate social\u0103. Acel &#8222;mai zi \u0219i tu ceva&#8221; s-a transformat din \u00eendemn, \u00een imperativ. De-asta \u00eemi place uneori s\u0103 vorbesc pe messenger, pentru c\u0103 pot s\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eemi iau timp de g\u00e2ndire \u00eenainte de a scrie ceva.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Recunosc, pentru mine o t\u0103cere nu e la maximul ei de awkwardness dac\u0103 nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een lift, cu necunoscu\u021bi. \u00cei prive\u0219ti \u00een ochi, ai o scurt\u0103 conversa\u021bie despre\u00a0 &#8222;la ce etaj?&#8221;, dar \u00eentr-o cl\u0103dire \u00eenalt\u0103, etajele par infinite.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">O vreme am umplut momentele de t\u0103cere incomod\u0103 vorbind deschis despre ea \u0219i destainuind-le oamenilor c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 \u00eemi fac o teza de doctorat despre awkward silence, iar c\u00e2nd o prezint \u00een fa\u021ba profesorilor, nu o s\u0103 zic nimic, ca s\u0103 demonstrez ipoteza.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u0218i uite a\u0219a, dup\u0103 ce povestesc planul asta prietenilor, t\u0103cerea incomod\u0103 devine o t\u0103cere simpatic\u0103. \u0218i momentul trece f\u0103r\u0103 victime ale inadecvarii sociale.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Cel mai probabil nu o s\u0103 fac teza aceea \u0219i nici nu o s\u0103 mai salvez t\u0103cerile productive de la firescul lor sf\u00e2r\u0219it, dar \u0219i \u00eenceput. C\u0103 doar nu o s\u0103 murim dintr-o t\u0103cere, oric\u00e2t ar fi ea de awkward.<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"540\" height=\"960\" src=\"http:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sectiunea-individual.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4684\" srcset=\"https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sectiunea-individual.jpg 540w, https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sectiunea-individual-169x300.jpg 169w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 540px) 100vw, 540px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oare de ce ne temem de &#8222;awkward silence&#8221; \u0219i nu de &#8222;disturbing noise&#8221;? Ce anume s-a normalizat, pentru a g\u0103si ceva straniu \u00een lini\u0219te, \u00een timp ce muzica tare, claxonatul \u0219i autobuzele nu ne produc dec\u00e2t o iritare, dar nicidecum nu \u00eel consider\u0103m inadecvat? Se presupune c\u0103 noi oamenii avem multe \u00een comun. 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