{"id":4548,"date":"2020-03-29T19:42:59","date_gmt":"2020-03-29T19:42:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/denisaneacsu.wordpress.com\/?p=4548"},"modified":"2020-04-27T10:37:44","modified_gmt":"2020-04-27T10:37:44","slug":"mai-demascate-ca-niciodata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/index.php\/2020\/03\/29\/mai-demascate-ca-niciodata\/","title":{"rendered":"Mai demascate ca niciodat\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Indiferent c\u00e2te m\u0103\u0219ti colorate, dantelate \u0219i igienizate vom purta, \u00eemi este clar c\u0103 m\u0103car un strat de acoperire s-a topit de la sine \u00een aceast\u0103 perioad\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen mare parte, pentru c\u0103 s-au r\u0103sturnat valorile \u0219i pentru c\u0103 mediul online a dat permisiunea oamenilor s\u0103 se exprime \u00een toate felurile, s\u0103 se \u00eenfurie sau s\u0103 riposteze. \u00cen spatele ecranelor, am scos ce e mai bun \u0219i frumos din noi (compasiune, solidaritate), dar \u0219i cele mai ad\u00e2nci \u0219i profunde doze de resentimente, judec\u0103\u021bi \u0219i scind\u0103ri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nic\u00e2nd nu am avut mai mult acces at\u00e2t de intim \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103riile, dormitoarele, pijamalele \u0219i emo\u021biilor celorlal\u021bi. Orice g\u00e2nd pasager a devenit story \u0219i orice fapt\u0103 casnic\u0103 s-a transformat \u00een (po)stare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen spatele m\u0103\u0219tilor, ecranelor \u0219i pandemiilor e mai u\u0219or s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m s\u0103 cad\u0103 machiajul bun\u0103voin\u021bei for\u021bate, pentru c\u0103 r\u0103sturnarea de situa\u021bie are un mare avantaj: face spa\u021biu pentru aspectele din noi care au fost eliminate \u0219i atent b\u0103gate sub pre\u0219. Haosul invit\u0103, ordinea discrimineaz\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru multe femei ca mine, care mult timp au z\u00e2mbit \u0219i au f\u0103cut frumos pentru al\u021bii, l\u0103s\u00e2nd prin dulapuri \u00eencuiate acele aspecte care p\u0103reau neasortate cu lumea social\u0103, masca este de fapt un prilej pentru a ne demachia emo\u021bional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iat\u0103 tutorialul de makeup pe care \u00eel propun:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cencep cu ochii, care pot fi l\u0103sa\u021bi s\u0103 vad\u0103 pe bune, f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eenfrumuse\u021b\u0103ri inutile aduse realita\u021bii \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 circumstan\u021be atenuante, n\u0103scocite pentru a-i justifica pe al\u021bii sau pe mine. Ochii, care pot l\u0103crima \u0219i pl\u00e2nge \u00een fa\u021ba nedrept\u0103\u021bii sau durerii, f\u0103r\u0103 teama c\u0103 va curge rimelul \u0219i c\u0103 nu dau bine \u00een pozele menite s\u0103 le men\u021bin\u0103 altora iluzia perfec\u021biunii. Pupilele, care se m\u0103resc c\u00e2nd pe masa realit\u0103\u021bii se servesc feluri aberante de a fi \u0219i propuneri indecente de la rela\u021biona, de dragul de a fi acceptat\u0103, \u00eentr-un mediu care oricum nu m\u0103 pre\u021bui\u0219te p\u00e2n\u0103 la final. Genele, date peste cap la observarea unui val imens de nonsens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Continui cu nasul care miroase orice arom\u0103 subtil\u0103 de \u00een\u0219el\u0103ciune, manipulare \u0219i fals\u0103 pozitivitate. Chiar dac\u0103 te dai cu parfumul dezirabilit\u0103\u021bii sociale, eu vreau s\u0103 simt aroma real\u0103, nota de subsol a personalit\u0103\u021bii tale, mai ales dac\u0103 este vorba s\u0103 petrecem mai mult timp \u00eempreun\u0103. \u0218i eu sunt dispus\u0103 s\u0103 renun\u021b la aromele tari, dar nepotrivite mie, \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 fac cunoscut\u0103 \u021bie, fie c\u0103 e\u0219ti prieten\/\u0103, partener\/\u0103 sau colaborator\/are. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 bucur de gura mea cea nou\u0103, care nu mai poart\u0103 lipstick-ul edit\u0103rii continue a cuvintelor, pentru a se potrivi \u00een matricea str\u00e2mt\u0103 a curentelor mainstream. Buzele mi se deschid sau nu, rostesc sau tac, din inten\u021bie \u0219i nu din obliga\u021bie. Ce bine c\u0103 acum masca va ascunde z\u00e2mbetele de complezen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i bun\u0103-ce-faci-urile plictisite \u0219i va da voie grimaselor s\u0103 danseze \u00een voie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe fiecare masc\u0103, orice trec\u0103tor prin via\u021ba mea poate proiecta o femeie vesel\u0103 sau trist\u0103, disponibil\u0103 sau retras\u0103, amabil\u0103 sau dezaprobatoare \u0219i asta m\u0103 bucur\u0103. M\u0103 scute\u0219te pe mine de a da con\u021binut prestabilit unei p\u0103reri exterioare pe care oricum nu pot s\u0103 o controlez, poate doar s\u0103 o generez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po\u021bi s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi scrii pe masca mea toate pove\u0219tile, filmele \u0219i versurile care p\u00e2n\u0103 acum nu aveau loc, pentru c\u0103 spa\u021biul era ocupat de Eul meu mult prea prelucrat. At\u00e2ta vreme c\u00e2t p\u0103strezi distan\u021ba consensual\u0103 \u0219i nu pui \u00een act fantasmele tale, sunt de acord s\u0103-mi iau \u00eenapoi povestea mea deja scris\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 las mai multe spa\u021bii goale \u0219i vii \u00een dinamica dintre noi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cencet-\u00eencet, motiva\u021bi de frica de moarte \u0219i elibera\u021bi de frica de via\u021b\u0103, poate vom reu\u0219i s\u0103 ie\u0219im \u00een public cu mai mult\u0103 degajare, \u00een \u021binute mai lejere. \u00cens\u0103 pentru asta e nevoie s\u0103 cre\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 un spa\u021biu sigur, renun\u021b\u00e2nd la duelul pe care \u00eel ducem zi de zi cu noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i cu ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Indiferent c\u00e2te m\u0103\u0219ti colorate, dantelate \u0219i igienizate vom purta, \u00eemi este clar c\u0103 m\u0103car un strat de acoperire s-a topit de la sine \u00een aceast\u0103 perioad\u0103. \u00cen mare parte, pentru c\u0103 s-au r\u0103sturnat valorile \u0219i pentru c\u0103 mediul online a dat permisiunea oamenilor s\u0103 se exprime \u00een toate felurile, s\u0103 se \u00eenfurie sau s\u0103 riposteze. 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