{"id":4923,"date":"2022-06-28T14:10:25","date_gmt":"2022-06-28T14:10:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/?p=4923"},"modified":"2022-06-28T14:10:27","modified_gmt":"2022-06-28T14:10:27","slug":"despre-saracie-o-poveste-de-psihoterapie-romaneasca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/index.php\/2022\/06\/28\/despre-saracie-o-poveste-de-psihoterapie-romaneasca\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre saracie, o poveste de psihoterapie romaneasca"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Cum arat\u0103 scena vie\u021bii unde apar? Ai mei sunt cam lua\u021bi prin surprindere de mine, dar merg \u00een acord cu rostul vremii. Am\u00e2ndoi sunt croitori. Nu sunt chiar f\u0103cu\u021bi unul pentru cel\u0103lat, diferi\u021bi de la cer la p\u0103m\u00e2nt, dar ca femeie-croitor \u00een fabric\u0103, nu \u00ee\u021bi permi\u021bi s\u0103 fii single mom, cu salariul minim pe economie. Acest refren, \u201csalariul minim pe economie\u201d se aude ca o plac\u0103 de magnetofon stricat\u0103, care a r\u0103mas pe repeat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doi ani mai tarziu, se na\u0219te \u0219i frate-miu. &#8222;E bine s\u0103 ai doi copii&#8221;, \u00ee\u0219i spun ai mei, &#8222;se ajut\u0103 \u00eentre ei la nevoie&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Urmeaz\u0103 copilaria. Care m\u0103 ajut\u0103 mult s\u0103-mi dezvolt imagina\u021bia. Nu avem bani de juc\u0103rii, \u00eemi plac ni\u0219te p\u0103pu\u0219i din vitrine, pe care mama nu mi le cump\u0103r\u0103, dar promite c\u0103 o s\u0103 le ia \u00eentr-o zi. Eu m\u0103 joc cu ele \u00een mintea mea, de parc\u0103 le-a\u0219 avea. Uneori nici nu mai \u0219tiu dac\u0103 nu cumva chiar am \u021binut \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 p\u0103pu\u0219a respectiv\u0103, at\u00e2t de fin\u0103 e limita \u00eentre imagina\u021bie \u0219i realitate. Ai mei se ceart\u0103 des pe tema banilor. Dialogul despre economie sun\u0103 cam a\u0219a:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201d De ce ai luat cartofii aia care sunt cu un leu mai scumpi?\u201d \u201cMai \u021bine si tu de bani.\u201d \u201cDe ce nu aduci suficien\u021bi bani \u00een cas\u0103?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cM\u0103 duc la serviciu (de\u0219i ur\u0103sc ceea ce fac) ca s\u0103 ne ajung\u0103 banii\u201d. Maic\u0103-mea este ve\u0219nic nervoas\u0103 \u0219i indisponibil\u0103 pentru c\u0103 nu-i place ce face, mai este \u0219i prost pl\u0103tit\u0103 \u0219i e \u0219i epuizat\u0103 de calculele interminabile, de caietele cu economii bine calculate \u0219i de timpul pierdut prin magazine, pentru a g\u0103si pre\u021burile cele mai ieftine. Taic\u0103-miu este absent, ca \u0219i banii. Ne pune \u0219i el pe mas\u0103 s\u0103r\u0103cia emo\u021bional\u0103. Nu vrea prea mult de la via\u021b\u0103. E resemnat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mie \u0219i fratelui meu ni se spune: \u201cImp\u0103r\u021bi\u021bi banana pe jum\u0103tate\u201d(am acum ni\u0219te skill-uri de rupt m\u00e2ncarea \u00een dou\u0103 p\u0103r\u021bi chiar egale, care ar uimi pe oricine)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cNu te duci la \u0219coal\u0103 de ziua ta, nu avem bani s\u0103 lu\u0103m bomboane s\u0103 dai la colegi\u201d. Ah, c\u0103 tot veni vorba de \u0219coala, cel mai puternic mesaj, cel mai bine \u00eenfipt afectiv, este: Denisa, \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 bine, ca s\u0103 ajungi nu ajungi ca noi. Ai mei intr\u0103 \u00een jocul social, v\u00e2ndut de educa\u021bie, cum c\u0103 notele mari garanteaz\u0103 bun\u0103starea ulterioar\u0103. Ce s\u0103 mai, merit\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 sacrific acum, pe b\u0103ncile \u0219colii, ca s\u0103 nu m\u0103 sacrific apoi pe holurile vie\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zis \u0219i f\u0103cut. Devin tocilar\u0103. Arunc la co\u0219 toate p\u0103pu\u0219ile pe care nu le-am avut de fapt \u0219i m\u0103 pun pe \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat. \u0218i at\u00e2t, nimic altceva, via\u021ba mea se reduce la asta. Sunt eleva cu 10 pe linie, trimis\u0103 la olimpiade, mereu cu r\u0103spunsul corect la mine. L\u0103udat\u0103 de profesori, ur\u00e2t\u0103 visceral de colegi, pentru c\u0103 sunt bau-bau-ul cu care ei sunt amenin\u021bati de p\u0103rin\u021bi acas\u0103: \u201cDac\u0103 ea poate s\u0103 ia 10, tu de ce nu po\u021bi, Georgele?\u201d Habar n-au ei c\u0103 eu pot fiindc\u0103 st\u0103 S\u0103r\u0103cia l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine c\u00e2nd \u00eemi fac temele, amenin\u021b\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 cu nuiaua lipsei \u0219i sacrificiului. Promi\u021b\u00e2ndu-mi marea cu sarea (eu am v\u0103zut marea prin clasa a opta, \u00eemi era foarte ru\u0219ine p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci s\u0103 le dest\u0103inui prietenilor c\u0103 eu \u0219i ai mei nu am fost niciodat\u0103 la mare; mi se parea c\u0103 am ceva lips\u0103, c\u0103 nu apar\u021bin lumii mari care merge in vacante). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Asta este \u0219i mai greu de dus decat lipsurile: \u00een fa\u021ba lumii, este o ru\u0219ine c\u0103 nu am bani, e nevoie s\u0103 pastrez aparen\u021bele. Nu pot vorbi cu nimeni despre asta. Nu pot invita prieteni pe la mine, pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i vor da seama v\u0103z\u00e2nd apartamentul c\u0103 suntem mai mode\u0219ti. Nu celebr\u0103m prea mult ca familie, nu d\u0103m bani pe experien\u021be, pe lucruri pe care nu sunt de maxim\u0103 necesitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sunt \u00een clasa a opta. Ve\u021bi crede poate c\u0103 faptul c\u0103 am 10 pe linie at\u00e2\u021bia ani la r\u00e2nd \u0219i sunt olimpic\u0103 \u00eemi d\u0103 mult\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een mine. Nu e a\u0219a. M\u0103 duce mintea c\u00e2t s\u0103 m\u0103 prind c\u0103 omene\u0219te e imposibil a\u0219a ceva. Cred c\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 o magie, o minune, c\u0103 se duce S\u0103r\u0103cia \u0219i m\u0103sluie\u0219te notele pentru mine, iar atunci c\u00e2nd dau r\u0103spunsurile acelea corecte \u00een clas\u0103, uimindu-i pe profesori, sunt convins\u0103 c\u0103 S\u0103r\u0103cia a venit \u0219i a f\u0103cut o hipnoz\u0103 colectiv\u0103, care le-a sucit min\u021bile tuturor celor prezen\u021bi. N-are cum, eu o fat\u0103 s\u0103rac\u0103, din p\u0103rinti croitori \u0219i bunici \u021b\u0103rani s\u0103 fiu vreo de\u0219teapt\u0103 cu mo\u021b \u00een frunte, cum ap\u0103ream \u00een viziunea social\u0103 pe atunci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tot ce f\u0103ceam era s\u0103-mi folosesc creierul, nici treburi prin cas\u0103 nu f\u0103ceam, pentru c\u0103 eram un om ocupat cu treburile min\u021bii. Jocurile copil\u0103riei \u00eemi spuseser\u0103 adio, suspin\u00e2nd resemnate, \u00eenc\u0103 din clasa \u00eent\u00e2i. \u00cei promisesem \u0219otronului c\u0103 merit\u0103 desp\u0103r\u021birea, pentru c\u0103 mi-a promis mie S\u0103r\u0103cia ni\u0219te lucruri \u0219i m\u0103 rezolv\u0103. Recuper\u0103m noi timpul pierdut \u00eentr-o zi.\u00a0 Ce s\u0103 v\u0103 fac mai jocuri, life is hard, copil\u0103ria nu \u021bine de foame mai t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De ce v\u0103 povestesc toate astea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fiindc\u0103 m-am prins c\u0103 totul a fost o fars\u0103. S\u0103r\u0103cia nu s-a \u021binut de cuv\u00e2nt. \u00cen tot acest timp, notele mele de 10 nu s-au ad\u0103ugat la cash-flow-ul familiei. Ai mei tot s\u0103raci au r\u0103mas. Mama se consola cu ideea \u201clas\u0103, c\u0103 nici prea bogat nu e bine, ce s\u0103 faci cu at\u00e2\u021bia bani?\u201d Visa foarte des c\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219te un sac de bani pe strad\u0103 sau c\u0103 va c\u00e2\u0219tiga la Tele Euro Bingo (nu lua bilete, oricum). Tata lucra de zor haine pe gratis la vecini, c\u0103 i se p\u0103rea ciudat s\u0103 le cear\u0103 bani. El se resemnase, v-am zis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu numai c\u0103 S\u0103r\u0103cia mi-a tras \u021beapa, dar a invitat-o \u0219i pe prietena ei Triste\u021bea \u00een jocul acesta faustian, unde mi-am v\u00e2ndut sufletul de copil \u00een schimburi unor promisiuni cu iz politic, de tipul \u201dviitorul sun\u0103 bine\u201d. Dar prezentul era afon r\u0103u de tot. Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 ascult metal, s\u0103 fiu rockeri\u021b\u0103 sup\u0103rat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am realizat c\u0103 n-am prieteni (nu avusesem timp pentru asta), c\u0103 nu \u0219tiu cine sunt, cine se ascunde \u00een spatele elevei model. \u0218i c\u0103 nimic din ce reu\u0219isem nu m\u0103 bucura \u0219i nu m\u0103 \u00eemplinea cu adev\u0103rat. C\u0103 \u00eemi e greu s\u0103 m\u0103 adaptez la o realitate care implic\u0103 \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219area \u0219i cultivarea gre\u0219elilor. Eram fragil\u0103 ca un fulg, care \u0219tie c\u0103 nu va supravie\u021bui c\u0103ldurii solare a lumii de afar\u0103. Nu de alta, dar \u0219i eu \u0219i ai mei st\u0103tusem \u00eentr-o bul\u0103 v\u00e2ndut\u0103 de sistem, \u00een care ne-am jucat totul pe o carte (bine, chiar mai multe, eu citeam \u0219i noaptea) care s-a dovedit a fi nec\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103toare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Frate-miu a fost din fericire scos mai devreme din bul\u0103, pentru c\u0103 ai mei \u00eencepuser\u0103 s\u0103 se prind\u0103 c\u0103 e ceva putred \u00een Danemarca, dar \u0219i \u00een Rom\u00e2nia. \u0218i c\u0103 sistemul vinde acest \u201cinvata bine ca sa ajungi cineva\u201d ca \u0219i cum ar fi cheia fericirii. Dar lac\u0103tul educa\u021biei era ruginit demult. Notele \u0219colare nu se mai potriveau pe portativul realit\u0103\u021bii, dar ne pref\u0103ceam cu to\u021bii c\u0103 melodia asta e la mod\u0103 \u0219i va fi \u0219i peste ani \u0219i c\u00e2ntam \u00een cor: &#8222;Ai carte, ai parte&#8221; (parte de ce?). Ne \u00eenchinam la catalog, ca \u0219i cum ar fi un oracol care face profe\u021bii despre viitor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a c\u0103, \u00een adolescen\u021b\u0103, m-am l\u0103sat de \u00eenchinare \u0219i zei deghiza\u021bi \u00een note \u0219i am cultivat ateismul interior. Am deconstruit r\u00e2nd pe r\u00e2nd fiecare bucat\u0103 din realitatea asta f\u0103cut\u0103 din vat\u0103 de zah\u0103r (dar cu gust amar) \u0219i am topit \u00een focul interior eleva cu 10 pe linie. A fost crunt s\u0103 dizolv toate lec\u021biile de rom\u00e2n\u0103, matematic\u0103, istorie, geografie, biologie, francez\u0103, \u00eentr-una singur\u0103: lec\u021bia despre mine. Nu mai r\u0103m\u00e2nea dec\u00e2t s\u0103 transform aceast\u0103 poveste f\u0103r\u0103 happy-end, cu multe lacrimi v\u0103rsate, \u00eentr-o poveste cu sens. A\u0219a c\u0103 n-am b\u00e2jb\u00e2it printre profesii \u0219i am zis direct: m\u0103 fac psiholog. Ce era s\u0103 fac? Tocmai ce descoperisem c\u0103 m\u0103 pricepeam la tot \u0219i nimic \u00een acela\u0219i timp. N-a fost u\u0219or, nu e ca \u0219i cum psihologia e fix prima chestie la care te g\u00e2nde\u0219\u021bi c\u00e2nd vine vorba de a c\u00e2\u0219tiga bani. Nu mai zic c\u0103 nu corespunde cu lucrurile pentru care ai mei ar fi pl\u0103tit: nu e ceva material, nu e nevoie de baz\u0103, po\u021bi s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103. E un lux. Ce s\u0103 mai, ai mei n-ar fi dat niciodat\u0103 banii pe psiholog (de\u0219i acum dac\u0103 m\u0103 uit \u00een urm\u0103, poate asta ar fi scutit ni\u0219te ani buni de suferin\u021b\u0103 pentru to\u021bi).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am intrat la facultate (cu 10, evident, old habits die hard). Diferen\u021ba e c\u0103 de data asta zece-le mi se cuvenea \u0219i era \u00een \u00eentregime ales de mine. Am stat la c\u0103min, am luat burse de performan\u021b\u0103. Am continuat s\u0103 m\u0103 cunosc \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 dezvolt. Am asistat la mesajele pline de bune inten\u021bii ale profesorilor care ne preveneau: \u201cdac\u0103 vre\u021bi s\u0103 tr\u0103i\u021bi din asta, merge\u021bi \u0219i voi c\u0103tre resurse umane sau organiza\u021bii. Cu psihoterapia se moare de foame, iar Freud e demodat.\u201d Concuren\u021ba este oricum mare, sunt mul\u021bi psihologi pe pia\u021ba muncii, iar cei mai mul\u021bi fac psihoterapie ca hobby, dup\u0103 programul de lucru de la 09.00-17.00, \u00een alt domeniu. Iar ca s\u0103 te formezi ca psihoterapeut, \u00ee\u021bi trebuie mul\u021bi bani. Alt\u0103&nbsp;S\u0103r\u0103cie, cu alt\u0103 p\u0103l\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar moment de r\u0103scruce: ce s\u0103 aleg, S\u0103r\u0103cia cu care eram deja \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie de lunga durata? Sau s\u0103 fac ceva ce nu \u00eemi place, doar ca s\u0103 am cu ce s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc \u0219i s\u0103 duc via\u021ba ne\u00eemplinit\u0103 pe care am v\u0103zut-o la adultii din jurul meu? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i tot fugeam eu de\u00a0S\u0103r\u0103cie, dar pare c\u0103 ea avea antrenament transgenera\u021bional \u0219i fusese bine hr\u0103nit\u0103 de arborele meu genealogic \u0219i m\u0103 prindea din urm\u0103. Dar nici eu nu m-am l\u0103sat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat accelerat, m-am dus \u00een domenii grele, cu etichete dure: boli psihice, oamenii str\u0103zii, \u0219omeri, educa\u021bie, cercetare. \u00cen educa\u021bie am sim\u021bit cea mai mare \u00eencredere, fiindc\u0103 povestea mea m\u0103 antrenase bine de tot. Aici era terenul unde eu \u0219i S\u0103r\u0103cia jucasem cele mai multe jocuri de putere. \u0218i puteam s\u0103 \u00eei simt prezen\u021ba. \u0218tiam c\u0103 \u00een educa\u021bie e\u00a0S\u0103r\u0103cie\u00a0pe toate planurile, mai ales suflete\u0219te. \u00cei cuno\u0219team toate tertip-urile: \u0219tiam c\u0103 Lipsa \u0219i Gol-ul se pot deghiza \u00een curricule preten\u021bioase \u0219i s\u0103li amenajate frumos, sau \u00een brand-uri educa\u021bionale cu promisiuni uria\u0219e. \u0218i mai \u0219tiam c\u0103 aici S\u0103r\u0103cia e mai fioroas\u0103 \u0111ec\u00e2t oriunde, pentru c\u0103 las\u0103 urme pe termen lung.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu oamenii str\u0103zii, S\u0103r\u0103cia era mult mai evident\u0103, m\u0103 lovea \u00een fa\u021b\u0103, mirosea ur\u00e2t \u0219i provoca dezgust. Aici am \u00een\u021beles clar c\u0103 a fi s\u0103rac nu e o virtute, e o form\u0103 de a capitula \u00een fa\u021ba vie\u021bii, e un sacrificiu care aduce cu sine mult\u0103 umilin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i pierderea sentimentului de demnitate uman\u0103. S\u0103r\u0103cia se vindea la schimb cu Libertatea. Cam scump, \u00een Lumea de dincolo era mai ieftin. Unii dintre oamenii str\u0103zii chiar alegeau forma asta de libertate suprem\u0103, c\u0103reia noi \u00eei spunem &#8222;moarte&#8221;. Cei care supravie\u021buiau erau aproape \u0219oca\u021bi c\u0103 \u00eei tratam cu respect \u0219i bl\u00e2nde\u021be. Rela\u021bia lor cu S\u0103r\u0103cia m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 relativizez propria mea poveste \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eemi cer iertare S\u0103r\u0103ciei mele, care fusese mai bogat\u0103 \u0219i mai generoas\u0103 dec\u00e2t a lor. Nu am putut s\u0103 nu observ c\u0103 oamenii care stau \u00een strad\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 rolul acesta greu de a oglindi S\u0103r\u0103cia colectiv\u0103. Noi ne facem c\u0103 ne uit\u0103m \u00een alt\u0103 parte, trecem strada, sau \u00eei privim din ma\u0219in\u0103, de la cald sau din bataia aerului conditionat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar to\u021bi anii mei de copil\u0103rie r\u0103ma\u0219i captivi pe b\u0103ncile \u0219colii nu au fost chiar degeaba. Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat perseveren\u021ba \u0219i c\u0103 se poate s\u0103 excelez aproape \u00een aprope orice \u00eemi propun. Dac\u0103 nu \u00eemi iese cu psihologia, voi lua la r\u00e2nd toate materiile la care am luat 10 \u0219i tot o s\u0103 fac eu ceva bun \u00een lumea asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Chiar sper s\u0103 \u00eenchei frumos rela\u021bia aceasta de lung\u0103 durat\u0103 cu S\u0103r\u0103cia. S\u0103 ne d\u0103m m\u00e2na cu prietenie \u0219i s\u0103 ne mul\u021bumim pentru lec\u021biile \u00eenv\u0103\u021bate. Eu una cu siguran\u021ba nu a\u0219 fi fost at\u00e2t de deschis\u0103 la suferin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i at\u00e2t de dornic\u0103 s\u0103 pansez golurile emo\u021bionale ale oamenilor, dac\u0103 nu era S\u0103r\u0103cia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cele mai minunate experien\u021be din toat\u0103 via\u021ba mea au fost trimise gratis, sub form\u0103 de oameni sau experien\u021be.\u00a0 Am aflat c\u0103 vie\u021bii \u00eens\u0103\u0219i nu i se poate pune un pre\u021b, c\u0103 timpul e scump \u0219i c\u0103 nicio m\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eentins\u0103 nu e f\u0103r\u0103 o poveste \u00een spate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td>&nbsp;<\/td><td>&nbsp;<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-rounded\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"678\" src=\"https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/ryszard-paprzycki-u_zwqri95PA-unsplash-1024x678.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4740\" srcset=\"https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/ryszard-paprzycki-u_zwqri95PA-unsplash-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/ryszard-paprzycki-u_zwqri95PA-unsplash-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/ryszard-paprzycki-u_zwqri95PA-unsplash-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/ryszard-paprzycki-u_zwqri95PA-unsplash-1536x1017.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/ryszard-paprzycki-u_zwqri95PA-unsplash-2048x1356.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/ryszard-paprzycki-u_zwqri95PA-unsplash-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/denisaneacsu.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/ryszard-paprzycki-u_zwqri95PA-unsplash-1980x1311.jpg 1980w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cum arat\u0103 scena vie\u021bii unde apar? 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